Discover The Power of Taking Chances
Have you ever been faced with a life question, of "Do I Go ALL IN?' If not then start looking for those chances.Â
One of the best ways to make positive changes to your life is to take more risks. Life is more exciting and rewarding when you’re willing to put yourself out there and take a few chances. Plus, successful people take more risks than unsuccessful people.
With a little practice, you’ll find that taking a chance or two adds immeasurably to your life.
Consider these benefits of taking a chance and reap the power it gives you:
1. Taking chances enables you to move beyond your comfort zone. Nothing ever changes if you don’t do something new. It’s not easy to force yourself to do something that makes you feel uncomfortable, but it’s necessary if you want to experience growth in your life. Imagine the new adventures you can have!
2. Taking chances gives you power over yourself. Most people are risk-averse. It’s not in our genetic makeup to take chances. We’re like an ant
...How and Why Others (YOU) Try to Hold You Back From Success
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Do you have rituals? Habits? That you purposeful select to make your day what you want?Â
During that time think about the people in your life. Are they helpng making you a "better version of you"?
When you’re trying to change your life, there will be people that feel the need to get in your way. A few of them might actually believe they’re trying to help you, but they’re not. They want you to stay just the way you are. That way, they can feel comfortable about not improving themselves, too.
It’s frustrating to find out that few people are on your side, but it’s something that must be managed if you want to succeed.
See how others may try to derail your success:
1. They point out your past failures. We’ve all failed numerous times in the past. Some people in your life will undoubtedly bring up those failures in an attempt to sabotage your efforts.
Suppose you decide you want to climb all the 14,000-foot+ peaks in the US. You might be reminded by a “friend” that you couldn
...Deliberate Practice for Beginners
Had a meeting yesterday as I was searching for a vendor that may be interested in help[ing me with a project. I explained the goals of the project and what we were asking of them. The first thing that came out of there mouth is what is in it for us? I knew then, the relationship would not be good business wise.Â
Why because the ask was just for a small portion of time from time to time, that would benefit them and us. Not forever, but at least to start. They were not able to see the longterm until much later in the meeting, but by then I could see their mindset was not one that would make a good partner. You never lead with whats in it for me, its always what value can I provide. Then two things will happen, your value will make you invaluable or worse case scenario you gain further practice in your craft and take it somewhere else. Practicing your craft even if it cost you upfront and it will, in the long game it will make you better and therefore invaluable.Â
In this blog/vlo
...Life Is A Relay Race With Chris Dew
www.chrisdewministries.com . Go now!
There are times in your life when you meet someone and they have a profound impact on you, because you allow yourself to be vulnerable. That vulnerability is not of you, but of the interaction. A few years ago, I met Chris Dew. And I can tell you I became vulnerable and better for it. In this Vlog interview for the ROYI Academy, we wanted to bring to you a perspective of challenge, persistence, victory and still a RELAY journey. ROYI Academy's entire focus is for you to be the best version of you. Not me, not Chris or anyone else. YOU. Chris has an incredible life story that is worth sharing and we wanted to share it with you. Get ready for an impact time. Please close off everything else going on for you in the next 38 minutes. Put the phone in another room, tell others to not distract you and even put in headphones. This is that important. Focus. In our upcoming book, CEO FOR LIFE, we talk about focus.
Please focus on this story. https://www.chr...
The Dangers of Comparing Yourself to Others
Starting a new business, this can actually be a huge burden, the comparison game. Instead of being focused on your goals and your efforts you are comparing yourself to the competition or others. Well, you are NOT others. You are you. Yes there are successful plans you can emulate, but not at the risk of you not being you and putting that ingredient into your success. When I started my coaching academy, I researched a ton of academies, online offerings, coaches, and speakers. I still follow a few I respect. But once I was done with that initial comparison and research, I set out to be and create what I was passion about and fit me.
Comparing yourself to others is a reliable way to reduce your confidence, motivation, and self-esteem. It must be natural to make these types of comparisons, because nearly everyone does it. However, that doesn’t mean it’s a good move.
If you want to become the best possible you, avoid comparing yourself to others.
The Dangers
There are several challenges...
Are Your Scared?
Positivity Is A Choice I Make
Positivity is a choice I make.
I can choose to be negative, or I can choose to be positive. I choose to be positive and see the bright side of things.
Having a positive outlook is a choice I make for myself each day. It is the best choice for me.
There are positives and negatives to all situations. Choosing to see the positive in a situation keeps my spirits high. It puts me in a better position to be effective and to enjoy myself as much as possible. I am a better person when I am optimistic.
There are advantages to everything. I look for those advantages and use them to the best of my ability. Every situation has something to offer if I am willing to look hard enough.
I am determined to make the best of every situation I encounter in my life.
Negativity is exhausting and makes me less resourceful. Negativity drains my energy and conceals the possibilities. Negativity is a poor choice for my life.
I choose to be hopeful, positive, and optimistic.
Today, I maintain
...Yes ...its time...Top 10 Habits to Master:
It all starts and ends with you.Â
Top 10 Habits to Master:
- Meditation
- Reading / Learning
- Learn from your mistakes
- Maintain a vision of the future
- Eat a healthy diet and engage in regular exercise
- Control impulses
- Listen
- Create a to-do list
- Be a finisher
- Get up earlyÂ
The reason you fail and so did I....
3 Components of Every Habit:
- The Cue
- The Habit Itself
- The Reward
Believe me as cliche...just try...
Steps to Create and Sustain a Habit:
- Make a list of the habits you’d most like to create
- Limit yourself to one habit at a time
- Find a cue that will work for you
- Start small
- Build your habit
- Reward yourself
- Be persistent
This is your decision. Pleas comments and text me...this is life change. You already know it. will you do it?
Steps to Break a Bad Habit:
- Limit yourself to one habit at a time
- Be happy with progress
- Understand your triggers
- Interrupt or avoid the cues that trigger your habit
- When you feel yourself triggered, stop - interrupt th...
You Have Been Rejected - Now What
Sometimes, you might wonder whether others actually like or believe in you. You might feel scared about meeting new people, taking on a new project at work, or getting together with old friends. This is a normal part of being human, even spiritual. But you can defend yourself of these worries. It's like going to gym. It takes practice to know that rejection is part of the process and builds you.
A good friend of mine told me once that you don't grow on the mountain top, its is in the valley and trouble where we grow. -Michale Mishoe
So what are some exercises? Offense with rejection.
Use these proven strategies to banish those fears:
- Figure out what, specifically, you’re afraid of
- Feel the fear, face your concerns, and move forward with others anyway
- Let go of others’ responses to you
- Dispute your fear with facts. Acknowledge that there are times when you performed well or made a great impression.
- Try displaying some of the pleasant characteristics that draw you to others ...
Top 10 Simple Truths That Will Set You Free
My business partner of 13 years used to always tell me...a few simple truths....Like, "Rob we are not brain surgeons. Nothing we are going to do will kill someone", "Closings make all problems go away"..are two.
So now here are some more that I hope help you on this day...let's call them the top 10.
Life isn’t as complicated or as scary as you might think. With just a few, simple truths, you can make your life a lot easier, more productive, and more enjoyable.
Most of us are worried about things that don’t matter. If we could see the reality of the situation, we’d worry a lot less.
We’re also making life more challenging than it needs to be.
Change your perspective with these simple truths, and your life will change, too:
1. The Universe doesn’t care. Sometimes it seems like the sun, the moon, and the stars are plotting against you, but it’s simply not true. The universe doesn’t play favorites. It doesn’t care. It’s up to you to create the life you desire.
2. Ninety-nine percent...
